Curly Hair Habits I’ve Retired From

Through time, I’ve experimented with many curly hair habits. As I’ve aged, my curl pattern has changed, giving rise to new challenges. Weather plays a significant role in these issues, and curl retention has become my biggest struggle. Here’s a list of the habits I’ve retired and why they no longer work for me.

1. . Satin Pillowcase vs. Satin Bonnet

I used a satin pillowcase for about two years. It helped prevent frizz and tangles by reducing friction between my hair and the fabric. However, when I moved out of my parents’ house, I switched to wearing a satin bonnet.

The bonnet, unfortunately, left my hair feeling dry and clumped the next morning. The dryness forced me to restyle frequently, which became frustrating. I’m planning to return to a satin pillowcase. It worked better for me. It allowed me to leave my hair alone.

2. The clipping Technique

The clipping technique is meant to lift the crown area. I learned this from the Curly Girl Handbook, and it prevents flatness. While it can add volume, I found it impractical for my routine.

Whenever I diffused my hair with the clips, it caused tangling. Removing the clips often pulled out hair, which was discouraging. For these reasons, I stopped using this technique altogether.

3. Protective Hairstyles and Braids

Protective styles, like two-strand twists and braids, were a lifesaver when I first transitioned. At the time, my hair was color-treated and thin, so these styles helped preserve its health.

Now that my hair is healthier, I find these styles unnecessary. When I braid my hair, it tends to shed excessively. Even when my mom French-braided my hair with extensions, shedding was inevitable. I now prefer to let my curls flow freely and embrace their natural beauty.

4. Finger Detangling

Finger detangling is a popular method among curl enthusiasts. While I have nothing against it, it’s not for me.

I tend to be aggressive when detangling with my fingers, pulling out more hair than what would naturally shed. Whether it’s due to impatience or technique, I’ve retired this habit. Instead, I use a wide-tooth comb and detangle gently from the tips to the roots.

5. Using Gel

In the past, I used gels like Bounce Curl and Deva Curl Light Defining Gel. While Bounce Curl initially gave good results, over time, my hair became dry and frizzy. Deva Curl’s gel didn’t make my hair crunchy. But it left my hair feeling stiff. This did not suit my preference for big, voluminous curls.

I’ve since stopped using gels altogether, as I achieve better results without them. My curls are bouncier and more natural without the added stiffness gels tend to create.

6. No-poo Method

The no-poo method was part of my routine for a while. I specifically used Deva Curl’s No-Poo during the winter months and appreciated how moisturized my hair felt.

I then began noticing product buildup on my scalp and felt it wasn’t getting thoroughly cleaned. It also took me some time to realize that my hair needs different products for winter and summer. Now, I curate seasonal staples to handle these changes.

7. Curling Irons and Flat Iron

I was once known for curling my hair with a curling iron to achieve a wavy texture. Over time, I realized this habit was thinning my hair and damaging its health.

If I want a wavy look, I ask my mom to use rollers. She straightens my roots with a blow dryer. She uses a professional titanium flat iron, which minimizes damage by requiring fewer passes. Nonetheless, I avoid heat styling as much as possible to preserve my curl pattern and hair health.

 Final Thoughts

The journey to embracing natural hair often involves trial and error. Some techniques will work for a while but lose effectiveness as your hair changes. The key is knowing when to let go of habits that no longer serve you.

What curly hair habits have you retired from? Share your experiences in the comments below!

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